Rhys Sterling helps people explore desire, identity, and truth without shame or shortcuts.
This isn’t about better sex. It’s about better questions and finally getting honest with yourself.
Your Erotic Life Deserves Better Than Guesswork.
Meet Rhys Sterling
I’m a writer, a husband, a father and a late-blooming bisexual man still learning what it means to be fully myself in a world that expects simplicity.
I didn’t write this book because I had it all figured out. I wrote it because I finally stopped pretending I did. I needed a space to be honest, a space to ask the questions most of us were never given permission to ask.
What I Do.
I help people reconnect with their erotic lives, not through performance or perfection, but through truth, intention, and real conversation.
The free digital companion to Sex Smart: A Practical Guide to Erotic Intelligence Listen to the full audiobook and access additional reflections and resources designed to help you go deeper. It’s free for now, because this kind of learning shouldn’t be gatekept.
Why I’m Doing This…
I believe our erotic lives deserve the same care and feeding we give to our careers, health, and relationships. But most of us were never taught how to talk about them, let alone live them with honesty or intention.
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Sex lives on a spectrum, from sacred to casual, but what truly shapes the experience is the intention you bring and your emotional honesty. Instead of asking ‘What kind of sex was that?’ try asking ‘What meaning did I give it?