Welcome to Naked Thoughts
A blog by Rhys Sterling
This is where I write without filters, about desire, identity, relationships, and everything that lives in the space between mind and body. Some posts are personal. Some are practical. All of them are honest.
Sex Is a Spectrum. So Is the Meaning We Give It.
Sex lives on a spectrum, from sacred to casual, but what truly shapes the experience is the intention you bring and your emotional honesty. Instead of asking ‘What kind of sex was that?’ try asking ‘What meaning did I give it?
Don’t Get Used. Get Used to Someone.
We trade depth for novelty and wonder why we feel empty. This post explores what it really means to stay, choose someone, and build erotic connection beyond the thrill of the new.
Safe Doesn’t Get You Off. Truth Does.
Honest communication, not just playing it safe is the real key to thrilling intimacy and sexual satisfaction. When we risk sharing our true desires, even if it feels vulnerable, we open the door to deeper connection and electrifying chemistry with our partners.
Why We Hide the Things That Matter Most
We share the small stuff easily, but when it comes to the parts of ourselves that matter most, our doubts, desires, and deeper truths, we hide. This post explores why we keep our real selves in the dark, what we protect by doing so, what we lose, and why vulnerability is the key to real connection.
Stop Leaving Your Erotic Life to Chance: Why It Deserves the Same Attention as Everything Else
We plan for our careers, finances, and health, but when it comes to our erotic lives, most of us just hope for the best. Here’s why that needs to change.